Send us Fan Mail

A chance remark in a New York bar in 1991 — "you're an idealist" — lands differently than expected. Simon and Lee trace that moment through the topsy-turviness of political labels, from Antifa on a Lisbon rooftop to the day idealism became an insult. Along the way: growing up under IRA bombs and Cold War dread, algorithmically sorted fear, and whether a badly-timed fart rules out the simulation.

Mentioned

- Wall Street (1987, dir. Oliver Stone) — discussed as cautionary tale vs celebration of greed; Gordon Gekko, Michael Douglas, Charlie Sheen
- Platoon (Oliver Stone)
- Born on the 4th of July (Oliver Stone)
- Supergirl (film, trailer) — discussed; CGI dog face controversy
- John Wick — mentioned in comparison to Supergirl's dog-in-peril setup
- Good Boy (horror film) — cited for a dog considered an excellent actor
- Stonewall — NYC bar and landmark; site of the 1969 uprising
- Marsha P. Johnson — activist; cited for throwing the first brick at Stonewall, pivotal for US gay rights
- Antifa — political movement; discussed in context of linguistic and political inversion
- Trump — mentioned in context of Antifa during his first term
- Jillian — babysitter from childhood story; spent her savings on a Vidal Sassoon haircut
- Vidal Sassoon — hairdresser, mentioned in Jillian story
- IRA — cited in context of childhood anxiety and mainland Britain bombings
- Chernobyl — cited as example of proximate vs remote political anxiety (New Zealand vs UK)
- BBC — cited for one-sided reporting on the IRA
- Jeffrey Miller — the dog

Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

---
The Midlifing logo is adapted from an original image by H.L.I.T: https://www.flickr.com/photos/29311691@N05/8571921679 (CC BY 2.0)