Midlifing
Two friends Lee and Simon have serious conversations about silly things, and silly conversations about serious things. Together they dig into the pleasures, absurdities and imperfections of being human.
Midlifing
284: Loitering With Intent
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Simon is recording from Sassari, where the barn doors have just gone in and the pace of life feels unrecognisably slow. A conversation about loitering with intent – a legal phrase that turns out to be untranslatable into Portuguese – opens into a wide-ranging examination of third spaces, billionaires, and the frictionlessness of modern commerce: what the UK has lost, and why. Lee's account of an unplanned evening in Lisbon, ending with the three of them eavesdropping on an orchestra rehearsing through a church door, becomes the episode's counterpoint and its argument: that the best days are the ones that just keep opening.
Mentioned
- Sassari – city in Sardinia; Simon is recording from there mid-renovation on a place he has in the city
- Minority Report – Tom Cruise film involving pre-crime; cited as the logical endpoint of loitering with intent as a thought crime
- Cocktail – Tom Cruise film initially named instead of Minority Report; the mix-up launches a long digression
- Bryan Brown – Australian actor who appeared in Cocktail with Tom Cruise; his character's fate in the film briefly discussed
- Richard Chamberlain – actor; mentioned in connection with Cocktail and then The Thorn Birds and Shogun
- The Thorn Birds – TV miniseries; Richard Chamberlain connection discussed
- Shogun – TV miniseries; Richard Chamberlain confirmed as lead [?] – transcript garbled here
- Doctor Kildare – TV series; Richard Chamberlain's earlier role, mentioned in passing
- Jason Bourne / The Bourne series – Matt Damon spy franchise; invoked as another example of a character who wakes without his memory [?] – conversation unclear on whether the Bourne / Chamberlain thread was resolved
- Tilted Arc – Richard Serra sculpture [transcript says "Richard Sarah"] installed in Federal Plaza, New York; designed to bifurcate the plaza and force pedestrians around it; cited as an example of productive friction in public space
- Richard Sennett – writer and sociologist; invoked for his writing on friction in urban spaces and city life
- Too Good To Go – food waste app; compared between Coventry (mostly chain confectionery) and Sassari (independent grocers and green goods)
- Lievetta – artisan bakery in Sassari; slow-fermented, whole-grain bread; discussed as a surprising success in a city used to plainer loaves
- Keir Starmer – mentioned briefly as the kind of figure who has a public life in the institutional sense
- Pink Street – famous nightclub street in Lisbon; described as culturally hollowed out after the last Portuguese-owned venue closed
- Lucas – cocktail maker at a Lisbon bar; produced Japanese plum hooch from under the counter for an impromptu drink [last name unknown]
- Gilles – owner of a Lisbon restaurant serving Cabo Verdean cuisine through a Portuguese lens; met during the same unplanned evening
- Cabo Verde / Cape Verdean cuisine – the culinary tradition of Gilles's restaurant; described as African food filtered through Portuguese flavours
Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.
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