Midlifing
Two friends Lee and Simon have serious conversations about silly things, and silly conversations about serious things. Together they dig into the pleasures, absurdities and imperfections of being human.
Midlifing
302: Trained Into Silence, Trained Into Volume
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Simon is packing for a work trip to Sardinia via Venice that may or may not still be above water, while Lee is nursing a resurrected three-week-old voicemail from his own iPad and marvelling at a £2000 folding phone. A friend's line from her work as a couples therapist – point the finger at yourself a little more – tips them into their oldest shared material: Simon's mother's temper, recorded in her own diaries, against the careful, unbreakable Danish teak table that survived Lee's parents' house intact.
Mentioned
- Venice – mentioned regarding an upcoming work trip, with a wry aside about whether it's still above water
- Sardinia – ferry destination for the same trip
- Apple Duo – newly launched foldable Apple phone; its price becomes a running joke about "awesome power" gadgets
- Austin Powers – referenced via the pinky-to-mouth gesture from the Dr. Evil "one million dollars" bit
- Anthropic / Claude – AI company and assistant, referenced in a quick pun ("Miss Anthropic's Claude")
- BBC – broadcaster of an interview in which an AI researcher is asked to put a percentage on the chance AI causes human extinction
- Terminator – cited as the obvious cultural reference point that should have made the AI-extinction answer unsurprising
- Doctor Una / "Couples Therapy" (HBO) – a couples therapist with an HBO show of the same format, clipped for TikTok and Instagram; her line to "point that finger at yourself" becomes the episode's central thread
- Mick Jagger – invoked humorously as the wrong kind of finger-pointing
Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.
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