Midlifing
Two friends Lee and Simon have serious conversations about silly things, and silly conversations about serious things. Together they dig into the pleasures, absurdities and imperfections of being human.
Midlifing
303: She Seems Like a Nice Girl
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Simon opens with a simple question for Lee: what, exactly, is the attraction of right-wing extremism? Lee comes at it sideways, through Britpop. He admits the off-stage rudeness of Blur and Oasis in the late 90s put him off their music entirely (Tori Amos, at least, seemed nice), and wonders whether the far right runs on a capacity for forgiveness he simply lacks. From there it's Question Time, another Reform MP on the panel, and a view from Sassari on nostalgia as the engine of it all.
Mentioned
- Igor x Moreno – choreographic duo whose show was seen the night before recording; described as almost the only choreographers Simon goes to see
- Andrew Tate – cited as where a "gateway" figure can eventually lead
- Britpop – 1990s UK music scene, framed as two factions with a bridge between them
- Blur – the art-school side of Britpop; rude off-stage behaviour made their music impossible to enjoy at the time
- Oasis – the working-class side of Britpop; same objection, same result
- Pulp – the band that bridged the two camps, "the one ring that binds them both"
- The Lord of the Rings – source of the "one ring" riff on Pulp
- VHS vs Betamax – format-war analogy for the Blur/Oasis rivalry
- Tori Amos – the alternative listening of the time: angry and spiky, but critiquing misogyny; a clip of "Winter" is played
- Israel – example of a topic on which a podcaster's view gets set aside while the rest is still valued
- "Be curious, not judgmental" – maxim recalled from the show's early days, and from Ted Lasso
- Question Time (BBC) – televised political debate show touring the UK; the new season again features a Reform MP on the panel
- Any Questions? (BBC Radio 4) – the radio show Question Time's format derives from
- Reform UK – far-right party; discussed in terms of platforming, normalisation and nostalgia
- Andy Burnham – referred to as the new Prime Minister; the "Burnham bounce" is credited with Reform's drop in support
- Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland – devolution, and what it might mean to be left living in England
- Sassari – city in Sardinia; a vantage point on immigration, visible change and resistance to it in Italy
Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.
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